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Promised and pronounced preferred Central Oregon Wedding and Elopement Officiant offers ceremonies in both Sacred Spaces and Wild Places
Since 1998, Reverend Chenin West of Promised & Pronounced has been a creating personalized weddings and elopements in Bend and throughout Central Oregon's most spectacular landscapes. Whether you imagine eloping on the shore of Sparks Lake, at the dramatic cliffs of Smith Rock or anywhere in between, your ceremony will be a crafted celebration of your story, your values, and the adventure you're beginning together. Chenin has been deemed an award winning wordsmith, a hopeless romantic and a wedding whisper. This wonderful combination assures your will ceremony will be modern, meaningful and memorable.
Inclusive Weddings and Elopements in Central Oregon
Central Oregon offers truly enchanted locations for weddings. But the real magic isn't the venue, the flowers or even the perfect sunset, it's your love story. As an ordained interfaith minister and Central Oregon wedding officiant, I proudly celebrate all couples and all belief systems, including LGBTQ+. Whether your vision is simple and intimate, wildly adventurous, deeply spiritual or traditional. Together we will create a ceremony that feels authentic to you. Along the way, I'll be your guide, sounding board, and calm presence as you plan one of your life's biggest moments. Your ceremony is not only a wedding, it's a feeling. And it is that feeling that has kept me tying knots for more than 25 years.

SERVICES
The stones that inspire our package names were born from Central Oregon's high desert landscape and shaped over time by the elements. Similar to every relationship we celebrate, each one tells its own story of growth, transformation, and enduring beauty. Before our consultation, you'll receive an in-depth questionnaire designed to uncover the details that make your relationship unique. Many of my couples find this to be one of the most helpful parts of their ceremony process. This will be the foundation of our consultation. Together, we will create a ceremony that is intentional and unmistakably yours.

wedding ceremony
obsidian package
Imagine your wedding day unfolding in a moment that feels timeless. Your loved ones gathered, the atmosphere filled with anticipation. The Obsidian Wedding Experience is a bespoke, romantic ceremony designed to honor your love story with intention and elegance. I provide personalized guidance and support as we create a ceremony that reflects your connection, values, and vision for the future. Ensuring every word feels authentic.
Your experience includes:
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A consultation by phone, FaceTime, or in person
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A custom-crafted ceremony written exclusively for you
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Personal vow guidance and support
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Unlimited guests
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Vendor recommendations
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One-hour rehearsal
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Marriage license guidance and completion support
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Legal paperwork filing and name change information
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Ongoing support throughout the planning process
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Two witnesses required
Obsidian wedding experiences
begin at 525.

Elopement ceremony
Opal Package
Imagine exchanging vows under a vivid blue sky stretching over ancient lava rock. Or shore side of an alpine lake in the Cascade range. Your elopement can be as adventurous and intimate as you can imagine. Together we will create a ceremony that reflects your connection, values, and vision for the future. I'll be there to guide the process and bring your dream ceremony to life.
Your experiences includes:
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Your consultation by phone, FaceTime, or in person
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Personalized ceremony writing
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Personal vow guidance and support
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Vendor recommendations
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Marriage license guidance and name change information
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Legal paperwork completion
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Ongoing support for questions and ceremony updates
Opal elopement experiences
begin at 300.
Rehearsal: 125. optional add-on

Simple Signing CeremonY
sunStone package
Simple, memorable and meaningful. Our Sunstone Signing is designed for couples who want an effortless way to make it official. Whether at your chosen location or ours, this romantic experience focuses on the essentials of your commitment. Your ceremony meets all Oregon marriage requirements.
Your experience includes:
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A consultation by phone
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A short pre-written script with “repeat after me” vows and your official pronouncement
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No guests (witness-only)
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Two witnesses required (18+)
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Witnesses provided (50. add on)
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Valid Oregon marriage license (required)
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Rings (optional)
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Legal paperwork completion and name change guidance
Sunstone signing experiences
begin at 100.
For ceremonies with guests, see elopement experiences.

Micro Wedding ceremony
onyx Package
Designed for couples who want an intimate celebration with their closest family and friends, our Onyx Micro Wedding Experience blends the ease of an elopement with the joy of sharing your ceremony with the people who matter most. Whether you're gathering beneath the cliffs of Smith Rock, beside the waters of Sparks Lake, or at a private venue, your ceremony will be thoughtfully crafted and completely your own.
Your experience Includes:
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Consultation by phone, FaceTime, or in person
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Custom-written wedding ceremony
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Personal vow guidance and support
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Up to 20 guests
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Vendor recommendations
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Marriage license guidance
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Legal paperwork completion and name change information
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Ongoing support for questions and ceremony updates
Onyx micro wedding experiences
begin at 400.
Rehearsal: 125. optional add-on

Vow Renewal
Riverstone Package
“I Still Do.” There is something deeply romantic about choosing each other again. Your Riverstone Vow Renewal Experience is a heartfelt celebration of the life you’ve built, the memories you’ve shared, and the love that continues to grow with time. Held at the location of your choice, your ceremony is designed to feel beautifully reflective of your journey together. Before our consultation, couples complete a questionnaire that helps shape the tone, stories, and moments woven into your ceremony. After, I craft a fully personalized experience that honors your bond. I will remain available for guidance, questions, and thoughtful adjustments so your ceremony feels effortless and aligned with your wishes.
Your experience Includes:
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Consultation by phone, FaceTime, or in person
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Custom ceremony writing service
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Full ceremony officiation including ring exchange and vows
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Unlimited guests
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Vendor recommendations
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Ongoing support leading up to your ceremony
Riverstone vow renewal experiences
begin at 300.
Rehearsal 125. optional add-on


Wedding Rehearsal
Your officiant-led rehearsal adds an air of calm and clarity to your day of ceremony. It’s a chance to walk through the details so everyone can feel confident during your wedding ceremony.
Your Rehearsal Includes:
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Ceremony flow walkthrough and timing
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Seating guidance for parents and grandparents
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Wedding party lineup and positioning
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Processional and recessional practice
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Vows and ring exchange run-through
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Pseudo ceremony (paraphrased - no music)
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Cues for spiritual, cultural, or traditional moments
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Arbor, altar, and microphone placement guidance
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Coordination with your wedding planner or coordinator
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Pet and child care coordination support as needed
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Additional personalized details to ensure a smooth ceremony
One-hour rehearsal begins at 125.
Additional hours are 75. per hour

Retainer and Refunds
A $100 retainer secures your date and is applied to your balance. Any remaining balance is due 30 days before your event or in full if booked within 30 days. If the couple cancels, the retainer is non-refundable. In the unlikely event the officiant must cancel, all payments will be refunded, and alternate clergy will be recommended.
Hike-in destination fees, travel accommodations, and/or mileage fees may apply for venues and locations outside
of Bend, Oregon city limits.
Marriage License
All persons to be married in Oregon are required to apply for a marriage
license in Oregon regardless of which state they live in.
https://clerk.deschutes.org/Marriage/
Testimonials

"Our adventure elopement at Sparks Lake was everything we dreamed of, and working with Chenin West of Promised and Pronounced made it even more special. She completely understood our vibe and created a ceremony that felt genuinely like us. She weaved our love story throughout our ceremony in the most romantic ways. Chenin's writing was beautiful, her attention to detail was incredible, and she made the entire process feel easy and stress-free. If you're planning an adventure elopement in the Bend, Oregon area and want a wedding officiant who will cares, contact Chenin. We recommend her 100%."
Shar and David
Bend Oregon

"I called Chenin from Taos New Mexico and asked if we could be married at the foot of a waterfall in the Columbia River Gorge. But we didn't know the area. Chenin was not only a professional officiant but an amazing tour guide. Her knowledge and know how were impeccable."
Brett and Kat
Taos New Mexico

"Chenin is a true wedding whisperer. We had our ceremony at my grandparents farm in Rosburg WA. On our wedding day there was a tragic accident on the freeway. Because of this, many our vendors and guests couldn't attend. Including our DJ! Chenin suggested we play our music on bluetooth through my car. Genius! She made adjustment, after adjustment. Constantly reassuring us along the way. Her delivery of our ceremony was enchanting. She truly captured our love story in her writing. There was not a dry eye in the audience. We were so thankful we chose Promised and Pronounced and you will be too!"
Sara
Vancouver WA
